What do you know about women’s orgasms? If you’re a woman you know about your own ones but you’re probably in the dark about whether they’re the same in quality and quantity as your friends’ (they’re probably not) and if you’re a man, unless you’re particularly attentive, the whole thing is most likely a total mystery. But then, mysterious is exactly how a lot of women like it I reckon.Continue Reading
Jeune et Jolie is a new French film about a luscious 17 year-old bourgeois girl who discovers that she can get paid handsomely if she does a bit of classy dressing up and then meets older men in expensive hotels to have sex with them. She seems to mostly have a fine time and makes wads of cash. I went to see the movie at the weekend and it got me thinking: Why wouldn’t any attractive young woman do it?Continue Reading
British couples are having less sex than a decade ago, people have become more disapproving of extramarital affairs and women are getting more into trying out sex with other women. So says the latest Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviour, published in the Lancet this week.
But women aren’t just getting more adventurous with the types of sex they indulge in, they’re doing it with a wider variety of partners. Women aged 16 – 44 reported an average of around 8 lifetime sexual partners which is nearly double the number reported 20 years ago, while the number for men hasn’t changed a lot and has even gone down in the last decade, now standing at 12.
So this is when we all start making a mental tally of our encounters from way back, to see where we rank in the bed-post notch count. It’s well known that while men tend to exaggerate their number of conquests, women are more likely to downplay the variety of their sexual experience. But Cath Mercer of University College London, one of the report authors, says that the survey methods this time round were designed to control for willingness to report and they’re pretty confident that these increases in sexual behaviours are real.
So why are women having sex with more men?